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I've raised millions, scaled to 130+ employees, and exited for $60M. Now I help founders through my newsletter, a founder community and coaching program.
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Most founders start with the newsletter, join the community once they want deeper connections, and move to coaching when they need direct 1:1 support.
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The Honest Founder Newsletter

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Weekly lessons from building and selling a $60M company about ambition, pressure, identity, burnout, and life after the exit.
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03 · Work with me directly

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I scaled e-bot7 to $60M and burned out doing it. Now I help founders raise faster, scale smarter, and skip the mistakes that cost me years.
Why founders work with me 1:1

“We closed our $3.7M round in just 8 weeks after Xaver helped us reshape the narrative.”

Adam Probst, CEO & Founder, ZenML

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Why I started

The Honest Founder.

I founded my first company e-bot7 with a mission to transform customer service through AI. What started in a small room grew into a company with more than 130 employees, hundreds of customers, and ultimately a $60M exit. From the outside, it looked like I had everything I had worked for: a fast-growing company, investors, awards, and a successful exit. But behind the scenes, I was burned out. Around the same time, I lost my mother. It was one of the hardest periods of my life and forced me to question what success actually meant. The Honest Founder started as a way to share the lessons I wish someone had told me earlier.
Today it has grown into a newsletter and vetted founder community where ambitious founders can learn from each other, build meaningful relationships, and talk honestly about the challenges of building a company.
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The next chapter of The Honest Founder.
About a year ago, I started this newsletter with a simple idea.
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Nobody showed up.
In 2021, a few months after we were acquired by a NASDAQ company in the US, a C-level executive called me up.
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I didn’t feel like working this week.
It happens to me more often than you’d probably expect. Some days I wake up and just don’t feel like working.